As Roland Kym, Realtor and Asset Specialist, the statement “Do not compare your chapter 1 with someone’s chapter 12” resonates deeply with me because it reflects the journey of growth, learning, and persistence required in real estate, asset building, and life.

Why This Statement Matters to Me:

1. Success Is a Journey, Not a Race:
   • Everyone’s path to success looks different. Comparing where you are at the beginning of your journey to someone further along doesn’t acknowledge the time, effort, and setbacks they’ve experienced to get there. Real estate and asset building are no different—it’s about starting strong and growing steadily.
2. The Power of Perspective:
   • When I first started in this industry, I saw seasoned professionals with portfolios I could only dream of. But instead of getting discouraged, I reminded myself that they, too, were once where I was. Progress isn’t about skipping steps; it’s about taking the next one with purpose.
3. Focus on Your Goals:
   • This statement reminds me to stay in my lane. My chapter 1 isn’t less important than someone’s chapter 12—it’s just a different stage of the same journey. By focusing on my own progress, I’ve been able to build meaningful relationships, help clients succeed, and create a life I’m proud of.
4. Empathy and Patience:
   • It’s easy to see someone’s success and forget the challenges they overcame. As someone who advises clients at different stages of their financial journeys, I value this statement because it teaches patience—with ourselves and with others.
5. Celebrate Every Milestone:
   • Whether it’s buying your first home, making your first investment, or taking the first step toward financial independence, every chapter matters. I remind myself and my clients that each success builds the foundation for the next.

In Real Estate and Life:
Comparing your beginning to someone’s peak doesn’t just steal your joy—it distracts you from your growth. Instead, focus on writing your own story, one chapter at a time. That’s how real success happens, and that’s why this statement resonates so strongly with me.